Russian Women Abroad English Forum

Roy · Posted: Thu Jan 21, 2010 9:54 am Post subject:

Not only that, but now in addition to that I am seeking ONLY women who are LESS than 10 years younger than myself. I'll be 46 soon so that means NO WRITING OR ANSWERING WOMEN WHO ARE YOUNGER THAN 37 !!!! This pertains to both Philippine women AND Ukrainian women too.
Like Ham said: Foreign women are not from a different planet, they are just like any other women too. I guess if i was a woman then I would want someone within 10 years of my age too.

I figure that it would be okay if she has kids that were old enough to live on their own, perhaps age 20 or older, so I am writing to women like that, mostly women in their early 40's. This is a HUGE shift in my thinking and I credit ALL of it to FaceBook !!!
I was communicating with that Philippine lady and on her FaceBook page I saw photos of her girlfriend's boyfriends and they all looked so YOUNG !!! Then I looked at myself in the mirror and I thought "What an old piece of Sh*t !" That is when I realized that I really have to start writing to women who were "Old pieces of Sh*t" too ! After all, if I'm that way then I should match myself with women who were similar is appearance and composition too. That's just logical, I don't know why I didn't think of this sooner. I guess I was just blind to the facts.

So now I'm writing to much older women with kids. I don't know if anything will come out of it but at least now don't feel like a "dirty old man" chasing after all of the girls.

As for that young Philippine woman and what I told her about me being unemployed: Yes, that would stop her from going after my wallet, but it still won't stop her from trying to go after my passport. No, for that I'm using my level head and after my trip to that place I'm just going to simply stop communicating with her, she's just way too young.

Roy · Posted: Fri Jan 22, 2010 1:48 am Post subject: No Job = No "LOVIN FEELINGS"

Before I told her that I “sort of lost my job”, the Philippine lady was writing very long and complex letters to me. She was giving me praise telling me that I was the man who she had been waiting for, for so long! Now, she just wrote a very quick letter. She thanked me for the funny jokes that I sent to her and then she told me that things had changed. She originally said that the store that she was working in was undergoing renovations and that she would have the entire month of February off to spend every day with me. ( Of course I know that’s not true, stores cannot afford to take a whole month closed, they would go out of business with no revenue ). Now she tells me that it looks like the store will not be closing down completely and only parts of the store will be closed at any one time so she cannot spend too much time with me, not as previously agreed. Then she said

Roy · Posted: Fri Jan 22, 2010 2:40 am Post subject:

I did buy a nice $220 Canon SD1200 digital camera, and I WAS going to give it to her as a small gift, as a 'surprise' gift to her.

Well not any more, I'm keeping it for myself now.

I told her that I am bringing her 2 nice watches ( times analog watches) and that's all she's getting from me. I will take her out to dinner (maybe) but she not going to be getting any big gifts from me, I'm getting quite "CHEAP" with my money now, no more big spender !

ham · Veteran Joined: 30 Sep 2002 Posts: 555 Location: Uganda

Roy · Posted: Fri Jan 22, 2010 3:32 am Post subject:

Roy · Posted: Fri Jan 22, 2010 1:31 pm Post subject:

So I'm 46, minus 10 years = 36.
I got a letter from a lady age 35: Deleted it without opening it.
I got two letters from lovely ladies age 33 and 34: Deleted BOTH without even a second thought.
Went through a few letters from women age 38 to 42 and out of 6 of them I want to communicate with 3 of those women. Maybe, just maybe I can begin a meaningful friendship with one of them and they won't be just looking for a Visa or financial support. I know that it's only a very slim chance but at least there is a 'BIT' of a chance. With women who are more than 10 years age difference there is NO CHANCE.

This is how I am beginning to feel right now:
Have you ever seen pictures of OLD MEN in Nursing Homes? They have no teeth, use walking canes, and play checkers all day? For them sex is a non-existant thing. Well, I feel EXACTLY like those 92 year old men !!! For me sex is a non-existant thing so why do I need a woman for ??? Exactly, I don't !
So what does a 92 year old man want a woman for; just someone to talk to, that's all. So now I am comfortable with my 'single' life and I don't feel any 'Push' to have to get married, all I want is just a nice lady to talk to, walk with, and just be friends with, that's all. I don't know if i will marry them or not ( probably not ) , but at least I can be their friends and visit them in their countries a few times a year.

Roy · Posted: Tue Jan 26, 2010 2:54 am Post subject:

I wrote a letter to that Filipino girl telling her that all women are the same, that they say that they don't mind a huge age difference but once in America / Canada they all change and soon they too want a more "Normal" relationship with a man who is closer to their own age.

She wrote back and was SO ANGRY !!!
She said that she is different, she is not the same as every other woman and my words have made her so angry !!!
She told me that she never wants to talk about relationships with me again because I obviously don't know what i am talking about, she wants a more mature man, not some fool who doesn't know what he is talking about!

Obviously I hit the nail on the head !!! That is exactly what she was thinking about; she wanted to find some OLD FOOL SUCKER, marry him, then get the "GOOD LIFE" in a new land, and she is so angry that i have seen past her make-believe stories, it was all a lot of work for nothing for her, and now she's totally pissed off at me !!!

So it looks like it will be another "no-show". I will arrive there in some strange foreign land and my girl will not show up - AGAIN !

But this time at least I am going to a nice WARM destination for this colder winter season, not the cold Ukraine again. I will go to Ukraine later only when the weather warms up near the summer. And when i do go, it will only be to meet with women who are in their 40's, not young-things who are just still wet behind their ears.

ham · Veteran Joined: 30 Sep 2002 Posts: 555 Location: Uganda

Haven't you got anything better to do with your time?
Honestly, aren't you tired of beating this old thing to death?
It is as you'd grieve the "death" Laughing

of an "online friend" (as announced by a "friend of theirs" Rolling Eyes

PFFT! ), only to discover your online friend got a new moniker and is alive & well trolling online as ever before.
And as you are presented the same trick over and over again, you never learn.
_________________
"opinions are like one's bottom: everybody\'s got one& they all damn stink! ". For recreational purposes only. I my way, others theirs. Don\'t bother flaming/getting personal to create bogus cases to report.

Roy · Posted: Wed Jan 27, 2010 4:09 pm Post subject:

To answer your questions:
- No.
- No. ( well, maybe ).
- No. ( I do learn, I am very obvious to whats happening in my surroundings, its just that I like to talk about it .)

Now here's something else that i would like to talk about, I just got a letter from the Filipino lady, these are some of the lines from her letter, they really do tell quite a lot about her !! (nothing good though):

ham · Veteran Joined: 30 Sep 2002 Posts: 555 Location: Uganda

As I always say, I doubt there are many modest and 'traditional' women left on the WWW dating scene, if there ever were many of them to start with.
It is just a matter of facts.
Also, beware of women who are much of an headache during correspondence...you guess what they're like in real life.

Roy · Posted: Sun Feb 14, 2010 12:54 pm Post subject:

Hi everyone !
Well, I’m sure everyone wants to know how my trip to the Philippines went so I’m going to give you a short story of how things went. The trip was okay but I wasn’t interested in Mela, she just wasn’t my type. Now she was incredibly sexy and she gave me all the messages that if I wanted to go to bed with her then she was totally available for me, but that’s NOT why I went to go see her, I wanted to see if she was my future soul-mate or not, and since I realized that the answer was “NO”, when she gave me hints that she wanted to go to bed with me I told her that I was very tired and that I wanted to sleep and I would see her tomorrow. Then the next day I caught a flight back home and split. I could easily have had sex but I only want sex with my future soul mate, not some young thing just for fun, I’m not that way.
I stayed at a very nice and exclusive resort in Davao Philippines and the first day everything was really nice. The second day I took a short trip around the city and I realized that the poverty of the city was so great that the only real nice place was the resort that I was staying at, so my paradise was limited to the grounds of my resort. After that I sort of felt like a trapped animal and that wasn’t a nice feeling. Then the next day I met Mela and for some reason I got a sudden hot-flash, sort of like a strong feeling of embarrassment , it was a feeling that my meeting with her was totally wrong for some reason. I went out with Mela and her friend to a local mall and she showed me the place of her work. She lied. She told me that she had the month off because her work was undergoing renovations but yet the store was totally open and I even got to meet 3 of her co-workers there. After that I knew what type of person I was dealing with and I lost all respect for her. She was a very intelligent lady but at the same time incredibly cunning and scheming, so she was a danger to me. We then went out to eat and I found that talking to her friend was much more interesting because her friend was much more mature in her ways, not so childish. That also made me lose so much interest in Mela. Then we went zip-lining. Actually, only Mela and her friend went and I took photos of it. I ran to the other end of the zip-line about 2 km away and I took photos of them arriving at the other end. Then we went to drink a “slushy” at a nearby café. We then dropped off Mela’s friend and we went back to my hotel room where I showed her the presents that I brought for her. I gave her 2 nice Timex watches ( $40 each) , A Canon digital camera, 200 movies on an external hard drive ( she needed a hard drive for her computer ), and a nice electric toothbrush. (I bought the 2 watches extra but all these other things I just had laying around the house unused and unwanted in a box so they didn’t cost me any extra, getting rid of them was sort of like a spring clean-up for me.) I also brought along about 20 free computer software programs for her and I showed her on my computer how to use 6 different photo editing programs and all their feature, this took about an hour. After that she suggested that we get more comfortable together, I was not interested at all in her, I just wanted her to go away. So I helped carry her stuff to the lobby of the resort and waved ‘goodbye’. To me she seemed way too young, sort of like a CHILD and I have absolutely NO interest in having sexual activity with children, that’s way too disgusting !!!! And it’s a crime too !

I was tired and I went straight to sleep after that. Then about 6 hours later I woke up at 2 AM in the morning and I searched on the Interenet for a cheap flight back home, booked the flight, packed my things, and at 7 AM I was off to the airport and back on my way home. I had reserved my stay at the resort for 2 weeks but I used only 3 days of it and now I just wanted to get back home. Mela was just a child, I could not see her as my future friend and soul-mate. But the one thing that this trip did for me was that it make me feel young and alive again. Everyone was so young, everyone was in their teens or 20’s or 30’s, almost nobody was in their 40’s and 50’s the way I see things in Canada. And there was no signs of affluence, and this too was like the way it was like when I was 18 and 20, and for me it felt as if I had gone backwards in time to a more easy , relaxed , and care-free time of my youth, and this took all of the stress and worries away from me and made me feel incredibly happy ! So the trip was very nice and I enjoyed it very much, it was just the meeting of Mela that sort of ruined it for me.

Now I’ve got my eyes focused only on meeting "White-European" women who are older, much older, women who are within 10 years of my own age and no younger. I guess that I want to meet old and ugly women, someone I can relate to and have absolutely no desire to have sexual relations with at all; just a friend, someone who I can talk to about life and other things. I guess I must be turning into an OLD MAN !

Roy · Posted: Thu Feb 18, 2010 11:22 pm Post subject:

Roy · Posted: Sun Feb 21, 2010 4:58 am Post subject:

check this lady's profile: she says that she wants the following:

Roy · Posted: Sat Mar 06, 2010 11:48 pm Post subject:

Oops, I think I've fallen head-over-heels with another woman, again.

Her name is "Anna", she calls herself "Anny", she's age 24 and she has assured me many times that I am not too old for her, she would love to have me as her future husband. I think that maybe she will stay with me for a few years, until she can get her Canadian citizenship, then she'll be off too, but I really like her and I would love the opportunity to spend a few years with her in such a way, so I am planning to meet her some time soon, hopefully this May. Then live with her for a month, then get married some time this summer or fall. That's "IF" we like each other ?? ( Big "IF" ).

Anny has had such an identical past to the one that I have had, her life was a bunch of struggles and she has not had an easy life, similar to the one I have had. We really like each other and our thoughts are so much alike !

She's not exactly what you could call "super-model-gorgeous" but I think she is very beautiful. My Ukrainian ex-wife has seen her photos and she said "NO, she's not beautiful, no one will want her in Ukraine, she will remain alone forever there."

That was so cruel of her to say such a thing, I don't think she's correct. I think Anny can get a man in Ukraine, but it won't be a really great man, just a usual Ukrainian man. I like Anny and I want to spend my time with her, for as long as she will allow me to be with her.

She knows absolutely no English and I asked her if I could send her money by Western Union to pay for her English education right now. She told me that she would think that it would be very incedent of her to accept such a gift and she wants for us to wait until we meet each other first.

So far everything looks really great, that is EVERYTHING EXCEPT THE AGE !!!! 24 years old, and I'm now 46 !!!! Oh God, what the heck am I doing? Oh I remember; I'm a HUMAN TAXI, delivering a Ukrainian lady to Canada, that's it. Well that would normally offend someone else but I'm happy to be such a TAXI for her.

Maybe I'm wrong, maybe she actually WANTS to spend her life with me? (FAT CHANCE OF THAT HAPPENING ! ) If that's true then I will be a very happy man indeed, but even a year or two with her will make me happy, I don't ask for much in life to make me happy. I will just make sure that I take all legal precautions to protect my financial assets first.

I told Anny that she is way too young at only age 24 and she should enjoy life first. She told me that she can hear her biological clock ticking so loud that sometimes she cannot hear anything else other than that ticking clock and she is so afraid that soon, in one or two years, that she will be too old and no one will want her anymore. I think that she is over-dramatizing things, life is not like that, not even in Ukraine. Still, I think she's cute, I like her, and I want to help her to a better life.

My ex-wife here in Canada is now 31 and she is having such a hard time finding a guy. Me and her go out regularly to go shopping at local malls, or go out to dinner and talk about work. She's just met a new guy, "Jason" age 28, also an accountant, and she likes him a lot. Hopefully she's found her soul-mate in Jason.

I've got a bit of a cold now, and I'm sort of sneezing and miserable, but I'm happy that life seems to be looking up for both me and my ex-wife.

Roy · Posted: Sun Mar 07, 2010 10:02 pm Post subject:

Oops, I spoke too soon. I talked to my ex-wife and she is not happy with her 'Jason', she tells me that she now thinks he's a total bull-sh*tter". I told her to just relax and try to enjoy some male companionship for a while, but when went on and on about the problems in her life, I really think she needs to see a mental therapist, I don't understand why she doesn't just relax and accept people even with the few problems that they have.

Now for Anny; I sent her flowers, chocholates, and a teddy bear for 'International Woman's Day' and I got back a photo of what she looks like, it was taken by the guy delivering the flowers. I just love these photos because they come unexpectedly, the women are not expecting to have a photo taken so you see the women at their absolute worst, with no makeup, its a "HOOT" ! Anny looks pretty good, but what's the nicest is the really huge smile on her face, she's has a really kind smile look on her photo. I don't get such a view from Ukrainian women very often, usually they are sort of angry looking, sort of like they are plotting to throw over some foreign country or something like that. So even Anny's flowers-photo shows me that she's a nice girl. That's good, I hope I can make her life better in some possible way soon.

She told me that she does not have an international passport so she cannot travel outside of Ukraine. Well, I guess that will put off my ideas of trips to Egypt or Turkey with her. I will ask her if its possible to get one in the near future?

Anny'a not seeking any material gains for herself, I can see that clearly and its rather unusual since most of the Ukrainian women that I was writing to before only wanted to see what I could do for them. Instead Anny's focus is on what she can try to do for me to make me happy. I told her to just learn English so that she can talk to me a lot, that will make me happy. ( she know no English at all.)

Too bad about my ex, I thought she had found a guy she liked.

Roy · Posted: Mon Mar 08, 2010 7:40 pm Post subject:

Wow, I just got a letter from a 38 year lady who lives in Lugansk, and is she ever HOT ! She's so great looking, much better than most women in their 20's ! So I'm making plans to try to get closer to her and get to know her better. She's got a 20 year old daughter but she's able to support herself soon ( I hope ). And she's been divorced for such a long time now, I can see that she's sort of running out of "hope" of finding a half-decent guy, so I feel that she is a much better chance for me than younger women would be. A 38 year lady would like to spend time with me, but a lady only 24 would rather be out dancing the nights away, so I'm moving on to this much better lady; better in appearance, and better in age for me too.

Roy · Posted: Tue Mar 09, 2010 2:40 pm Post subject:

After such a long time of not hearing from 24 year-old Anna, I finally got her letter, and she let off a real bomb !

Holly Crap, now I know why 24 year-old Anny is still single; she’s not willing to accept men’s faults, not even one little bit !

Let me give you an example: The women that I know; they will have a man tell her something, and then they will go to their girlfriends and ask her girlfriends what they think about what he just said? And then instead of listening to the man’s words, they listen to what their girlfriends have told them. This is so often done, us men sort of just learn to accept such a thing in life. But not Anny, no !

This is what she told me:

Roy · Posted: Thu Apr 29, 2010 4:22 pm Post subject: God DANG, i'm an ugly MUG !!!!

I looked at myself in the mirror this morning and I have firmly come to the realization that I am one God-Dang ugly piece of sh*t !!!

Of course, maybe that's why no North American woman, or even any half-decent Russian / Ukrainian women would possibly want me? Probably.

So I have decided to only begin writing to very ugly women, ages 40 to 46 and that's it.

Lets see how this turns out now?

The only problem is: Why would I ever want to marry one of them? I don't know, I'll see how it goes.

Roy · Posted: Wed May 12, 2010 2:17 pm Post subject:

I just got a letter from a rather unattractive woman, age 35, Widow.

This is what she told me that she wants in a man:

Roy · Posted: Fri May 21, 2010 1:01 pm Post subject:

I have replied to 2 letters from a young 'kid' in Cherkassy, age 20, her name is 'Ekaterina' (Katya). she is seeking a man from age 21 to 48. I told her that she is probably too young for me but she is inviting me to come and see her later this summer or maybe early fall. She has visited America before and I think that the main reason she wants to get married to a foreign man is just to have that good life once more. She tasted the good life here in N.America, and she really loves it. Yes, she will divorce my sorry butt in a heartbeat, but I know how to protect my butt, so if she wants to use me to return back to this continent, then that's great, I'm all for it. I think that this will help me to relieve my boredom that I'm having right now.

Here's her profile:
http://www.a-pretty.com/cgi-bin/show_girl.cgi?id=55152&p=1

And here is her 2nd Letter that she sent to me:

Roy · Posted: Fri May 28, 2010 9:50 am Post subject:

I asked a local Serbian man why there are so many women age 18 to 20 writing to me, and in their profiles they state that they are searching for a man age 35 to 55? (Meanwhile, the women who are 35 say that they are searching for a man 30 to 45.)

The Serbian man told me that those 18 year old women have local boyfriends, possibly more than just one, and he is also age 18 to 20, so she doesn’t want to get into a relationship with anyone who could possibly provide any meaningful long-term relationship, she’s just having fun pulling the legs of “STUPID OLD MEN”.

Yup, that’s exactly what seems to be the case !

He told me to act my age and not talk to young 'fluff' under 30.

Roy · Posted: Sun Jun 27, 2010 8:01 am Post subject:

I'm finding out ALL of the necessary paperwork that is needed to create an even BETTER pre-nup (pre-marriage agreement) so that when my future Russian wife finally packs up her bags and decides to leave me for some other richer / better-looking man, I won't have any worries about my money / savings / everything-else.

These women look and act kinds and sweet, but once the love is gone they are TOTAL HUNGRY WOLVES, so God help you if you have not done your homework ahead of time and protected yourself from her with the maximum extent of the law on YOUR side, not hers !!!

I just read some really sad and depressing true facts that I now want to share with you:
I read the following from this site:

http://internetgirls.com.richi.biz/Eastern/Prostitutes/Mistresses/
A Beginner's Guide to the Marriage Agencies of Eastern Europe

( I don't know if any of it is true or not, but it seems pretty much as I have witnessed it first hand myself over the years.)
These are some of the lines from this story / guide at that web site:

Roy · Posted: Tue Jul 06, 2010 10:43 am Post subject:

Yes, the global economy is still sinking and still in the dumps.

I used to go to a web site for their daily funny cartoons, now when I went to the web site I got a new page, not what I wanted, and it said that the domain name for that web site expired on July 6, 2010. So its gone, no more funny cartoons. This was the link to the daily cartoons that used to exist:

http://www.badrussiangirls.com/brgCartoon.asp

Everything is just disappearing.
I read an article from the Financial Post, it talked about small business in America and of how sales have just stopped. It said that when there are no sales and no income, eventually the company just goes out of business, there is no way it can stay alive without cash flow.

I would like to get married but I think I’m changing my mind about that in this depressing economy, I see too many people who are scared about simple survival.

Roy · Posted: Sat Jul 17, 2010 9:39 am Post subject:

Good news; the 'badrussiangirls' cartoon site is back up and running. The rest of that website is just garbage, but the daily cartoons are a hoot !

Now for what has been happening to me lately:

33yr Angela from Odessa: In one marriage agency site she's 5' 10" tall and a nurse. Then a few weeks later she changed her profile to say she's now a medical doctor. What? She told me that she's a dental assistant. That's not what I would call a "doctor".

Then in another marriage agency web site she has the same photos but now all of a sudden she's shorter, she's now 5' 7" tall, and she's a Dentist. In her profile she says she works as a dentist.

I write nice long letters to her, anywhere from 3 to 4 pages long, with lots of questions. Her answers to me are incredicly short and she never answers ANY of my questions. Here is one of her letters, her reply to a letter where I asked her 12 questions:

Roy · Posted: Mon Jul 19, 2010 7:44 am Post subject:

I talked to my Ukrainian ex-wife, about the news of Kate leaving Ukraine for a job as a babysitter in Japan. She told me that's a bunch of crap, nobody needs their babies in Japan to speak Russian, and that almost certainly Kate is heading to Japan to work as a "Hostess" ( a low-paid prostitute ). Yes, I sort of think that maybe she's correct about that.

Oh well, another Ukrainian girl goes off to sell her body. .......